LOVE
What is love, if not only a chemical addiction between a individual and another. Even a individual and a familiar. An individual develops love to bind themselves with a thing of interest. The line between love and obsession is almost nonexistent. The separation is simply whether I'm not the feeling is healthy and or perhaps reciprocated.
An individual can love another individual equally as an animal or an adamant object. Depending on one's viewpoint of the meaning of love is whether or not one can have such feelings for something that may not reciprocate those same feelings be at whether it is love or an obsession.
The act of love is simply to be surrounded with that is familiar. The feeling of love can be developed with simply embracing a person or a object for a long amount of time. Placing your focus on to anything physical or nonmaterial can generate the feelings of love.
For example: if your brother gives you a necklace, despite your visual appreciation for this object you wear it out of respect for your brother. Over time you become accustomed to this object and your feelings of separation create a pit within you. Your appreciation for this object that you once had no visual appreciation for has grown for the simplicity of the act of it being familiar. Often the act of being familiar is enough, but coupled with emotional experiences solidify that bond.
It is this exact feeling that generates the bonding aspects of love of neglectful or abusive couples. The constant familiarity along with the fear of being alone drives individuals to stay and unhealthy situations for extended amount of times despite their loved ones please for separation. For with each negative then positive act becomes a new block in the wall that surrounds and binds these individuals. It is these memories that create contentment even in a volatile situation. Often the couple Will wall themselves off completely from anyone else. This act is more an act of misunderstanding which creates jealousy from feelings that route from in adequacy and more often than not guilt.
Love is more diverse than the word allows the communication to be had. The love of a friend or sibling can most often be greater with the lack of inflection of turmoil that often accompanies romantic relationships. It is this fear that generates the reality that often occurs when one become friend zoned, often against the other individuals better desires. It is the fear of losing this connection in friendship that may border on family that is felt that a lustful action could create disrespect or more interest than desired and therefore unwanted change. However, it is the emotional bonds, this love that will forever bring these friends as siblings back together in discussion of external events. And it is this bonding that will create this love, and the fear of crossing intimate lines for the thoughts that evidentially The relationship may crumble and the thought of losing that friend with that relationship is not worth the sexual act.
Puppy love is one of the greatest feelings of all times. The love of young with out the burden of experience. Where the sky is the limit and there is no where to fall. But with this the first heartbreak is the most devastating of all. And with each continued heartbreak the pain never lessons but the awareness of it lingers and perhaps paddens the below.
The Bunny phase is often familiar with the emotions of puppy love. The initial all-encompassing endorphin rush of someone new. When both individuals are so focused on the aspects of novelty that problems are far out of sight. This novelty can give such a rush, and is much of the reason of addiction of pornography. It can create the most awesome high, but like many drugs, only last a short while till you strive for it once again. When you are coupled with another individual that is going through the same chemical reactions it can be heaven. If communication is complete than the fear of what the other individuals intentions can be removed so the experience it can be felt and its entirety. This aspect of a relationship can last anywhere from two weeks to three months, and in some individuals can last for years or longer if being constantly fed.
Long-term love can be generated with constant communication and friendship in the romantic relationship. I have become aware of the unfortunate reality that many romantic relationships are based on the understood ignorance of its individuals. With this endurance of ignorance the relationship is not based on true love as much as the fear of being alone and having to start all over with another future prospect. The whole felt inside with in an individual that embraces this type of relationship as their own is that of the loss of something familiar, not true love. Truelove is developed with the constant communication and reassurance of both individuals needs and desires within the evolution of that relationship personalized. With empathy and a lack of judgment a relationship can rise to a height of truelove and full understanding of the individuals. There are three important components to respect with in a relationship. Partner one, partner two, and the relationship. The relationship comes before the personal desires of each individual. When the relationship is look at as its own entity, the relationship can blossom for the removal of selfishness creates a more pure viewable path of the ultimate destination of synchronicity and nirvana. For this communication to be complete one must remove oneself mentality from projecting on your partner. Empathy is key. But not to the point that you lose your own views. Empathy must be given on both sides to have a well-rounded aspect of communication and understanding. Even the act of agreeing to disagree is all more powerful then the demanding aspect of needing to be right. With this communication of having your lover be your best friend, true love can conquer any bounds and carry-on perhaps into the next life, realm, reality or whatever you believe.
There are many more aspects of love, and love can go deeper and create worlds as quickly as it can destroy them. Love can lift you or break you, you can float on it I'll be drug down to the depths of hell. The emotional rush of endorphins is all in lightning and the loss of it can be the darkest pit. If you hold the emotional awareness of each door that shuts as for the experience itself for only another door to open then each experience will become more beautiful than the last with the removal of fear. The lack of fear will generate a more purely powerful love with all that surrounds you. Without fear you are more able to ask the questions to give you the ability to understand what it is you are truly looking for. You must love yourself to love another, and you must know yourself to love yourself, and to know yourself you must explore yourself and all these situations both negative and positive to get a full well rounded mentality on who you are and what you really want. If you constantly see yourself being put in the same situation, it is because you are putting yourself there. If it is a negative situation, then see the catalyst and remove it. If you do not like The destination and get off the path. It is truly as simple as that. Remove the fear and you will gain truelove. If you project understanding you will receive understanding. If you project honesty you will receive honesty. If you project love, you will receive love.
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